In this section, I want to introduce a great friend of sister Dominican Republic, who in her posts on Facebook, I have appreciated some of her comments in the form of proverbs, sayings or advice no matter how we see it but that have a powerful message and good lessons in life.
When we read the Proverbs of King Salomon in the Bible we can appreciate the principles and that is the purpose to convey all this wisdom that in this case was inspired by God himself so they are perfect but if one looks well those of Carolina or others who also based on principles not only of the Bible but of the values we must have as human beings.
I hope you read, enjoy and comment on this good teaching and wisdom and the objective is if we can learn and put to practice or modify things in life to be better as people.
DO NOT let people treat you badly… NOTHING MORE BECAUSE YOU LOVE
Comment: Love is something that is kind and forgiving but we have to love ourselves first to be able to do it with others and that leads to decisions that if a person in our life does not want to change his attitude or worse still affects even children because there and L love of JUSTICE makes one then although we are not going to hate the person but his actions and with the hope that that person whoever is can change and there is the showing of love on both sides and remembering that in a way that is also called Discipline. It is my opinion and application on this proverb or saying. Now what do you think?
Sometimes we forget that the heart needs to rest…
Comment: The heart is usually stirred by the problems of life or just life in itself that there are so many challenges, but when there are problems that are additional by circumstances that others cause us both mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually, because a given that we are already without energy and our feelings are affected, so we must find the way of everything that is considered in different burdens to eliminate them.
Also the self-imposed burdens, so avoid them together that one can leave the burden to God and in our circle some true friend or a mother or father who feels comfortable to let us off and seek relief and advice.
There is always talk of domestic violence or abuse from men to women and it is true that the percentage is much more but in recent years since the decade of the 90s there has been an explosion not only domestic violence but even arrests a 50% increase in women and young people who have participated in this type of behavior. There is no doubt that due precisely to the abuse of the same man and female liberation plus the form of parenting or divided homes and many other factors has caused this explosion, and the point is that you and I almost never see in the television or newspaper media that talk about this but it is a REALITY that is happening especially in European countries like Spain and here in the United States. But then I will give more detailed information and other experiences on this subject and especially what we can do especially parents and people who are victims of this. There is no doubt that a video or images speak for a thousand words there I leave an example on this.
What should I do if get harass or abuse at school?
Bullying, harassment, abuse is a very sensitive and one of the most emotional reason for mental and emotional issues for young people and even during there adult life, and I am saying this because I also was abuse and bullying as an teenager.
In this first part lets give you an visuals a video that shows good advice in what to do when situations like this happen to you or anyone.
What can i do? What should I never do?
Imagine this situation: Edward does not want to school that all. It all stared a while ago when classmates told everyone lies about him. Then they began to give him nicknames. On occasion, some clashed on purpose. The books were thrown to the floor as if it were without intention. Other times, someone from a group pushed him and hit him in the back and everyone hid. And believe me I was hit real hard in my back. And more than that.
Now, if you were Edward: How would you react? Well there is no doubt that one is not going to feel good and one feels like the world is falling on you. But all is not lost nor do we have to give up in this unpleasant situation for one that feels the pain. But I knew that we can defend ourselves and very strong but notice WITHOUT A SINGLE BEAT. Now this can work? lets see some good advice.
DON’T REACT. If you manage to be as calm as possible, even less on the outside, those who harass you may get bored and leave you alone. In fact, it should be noted that a wise King namely Salomon, said that “it is wise to remain calm since it is stupid to let out their spirit” bone their anger or anguish any negative feelings, and yes I know what you thinking is ease to say that to be done and I agree.
.DON’T RETALIATE. Revenge will add to the problem, not solve it. “Return evil for evil to no one”. And believe me this is very correct.
DON’T WALK INTO TROUBLE: To extend possible, avoid people and situations where the bulling may occur.
TRY AN UNEXPECTED RESPONSE. “An answer, when mild, turns away rage”.
USE HUMOR. For example, if a bully asserts that you’re overweight, you could simply shrug your shoulders and say, “I guess I could lose a few pounds. I personally love this one, is a signal that we are MATURE.
WALK AWAY. “Silence show that your are mature and that you are stronger than the person harassing you.” says a girl name Dahiana. It shows self-control-something the bully doesn’t have”.
WORK ON YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE. “Bullies notice when you are not relaxed. Remember bullies doesn’t have self control.
TELL SOMEONE. According to one survey, more than half of all victims that are bullied online don’t reported. Possibly because of shame or fear specially on boys. But remember, bullies thrive on secrecy. Speaking up can be the first step to ending the nightmare.
In our next part we will discuss more information and stats about this important issue that effects thousands of people around the world in one way or the other.
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