WHAT YOUNG AND EVEN ADULTS ASK ABOUT THIS?
This right here is the key element for our children to understand and be prepared mentally
What should I do if we get harass or abuse at school?
Bullying, harassment, abuse is very sensitive and one of the most emotional reasons for mental and emotional issues for young people.
Even during their adult life, and I am saying this because I also was abuse and bullying as a teenager.
In this first part let’s give you visuals a video that shows excellent advice on what to do when situations like this happen to you or anyone.
Have you been in this situation? Believe I was and I know the feeling.
What can I do? What should I never do?
Imagine this situation: Edward does not want to school that all. It all started a while ago when classmates told everyone lies about him.
Then they gave him nicknames.
Occasionally, some clashed on purpose.
They threw the books to the floor as if they were without intention.
Other times, someone from a group pushed him and hit him in the back, and everyone hid.
And believe me, something hit really hard for me in my back.
And more than that.
Now, if you were Edward: How would you react?
Well, one will not feel good and one feels like the world is falling on you.
But I do not lose all nor do we have to give up in this unpleasant situation for one that feels the pain.
But I knew we can defend ourselves and very strong but notice WITHOUT A SINGLE BEAT. Now, this can work?
Let us see some friendly advice.
If you are as calm as possible, even less on the outside, those who harass you may get bored and leave you alone.
Show how mature you are. Show them what is a real man or woman with the class you are.
Revenge will add to the problem. It will not solve it. Return evil for evil to no one. Remember, the more we hate the worse in our hearts.
3-DON’T WALK INTO TROUBLE
To extend possible, avoid people and situations where the bullying may occur.
4-TRY AN UNEXPECTED RESPONSE
An answer when mild turns away rage.
This is my favorite. For example, if a bully asserts that about your overweight, you could simply shrug your shoulders and say.
I guess I could lose a few pounds.
I called myself The Blue Whale. And at the end we all laugh.
Silence show shows you are mature and that you are stronger.
It shows self-control something the bully doesn’t have.
7-WORK ON YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE
Bullies notice when you are not relaxed. Remember, they do not have self-control.
According to one survey, more than half of all victims that are bullied online don’t report.
Possible because of shame or fear especially on boys. But remember, bullies, thrive on secrecy.
Speaking up can be the first step to ending the nightmare.
PS. I want to let you know I was a bully in high school, and the number 5 is that work for me, and very interesting that it was about my weight.
And those guys are my friends today.
And even that I explain to them how bad is to do that and that way they can stop, they motivated me without knowing it.
I lost 80 pounds and become the most popular in school at that period for that and other things that I change some a little too much let just leave it like that.
Remember bullies feed on your fear and the more you look bothered, sad, or embarrassed the more they will bully you.
Be Brave Be Confident you will win.